Top 10 Things You Shouldn't Say on a First Date:

1. "I've watched this movie with my ex."

2. "My ex and I use to come here all of the time."

3. On the phone (if you are a man): "I will be home by 10 mom"

4. "Can I have a doggy bag to take with me" (when you are in a restaurant)

5. "My dad/mom wants me to be home by nine."

6. "Come and meet my parents."

7. "I have never felt better since taking Prozac."

8. "I have had 10 lovers; how many have you had?"

9. "I only split with my boyfriend/girlfriend last week."

10. "Do you mind getting the bill? I am broke" (if you are a man).

I am sitting here counting the minutes until the day ends.    No big plans just spending time with my family.   

But I am in need of a good few days off.   My husband is sick and we need to make the most of the good time we still have left.  

Recently diagnosed with cancer in his lung.   They are removing it on the 14th.   We are trying to keep it normal for my boys.   The crazy part about all of this is that he has never smoked ever.   Well, I guess everything happens for a reason.    I am going to use this blog to get through the days.